We don't balance it. In death, we (mostly) try to remember only that which was good about the person. The time of his conducting those actions have come to pass, so now we celebrate the music he made.
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Oh, I understand that. What I was trying to say was that I'm suffering a little bit of cognitive dissonance over the whole "he made great music" and the "he's an ass" thing. It's a problem
I am having, I'm not trying to suggest that everyone should have that problem. I was a bit lazy with my use of the phrase "we" in my original post.
I guess it basically boils down to the fact that I have problems separating the artist's art from the artist's biography.