#1 IL2 1946

But better get a nice hotas setup for it. It allows for carrier takeoff / landings but you have to assign hotkey to deploy hook. Lot's of key assigning with that game, but once you have your controlls configured to your liking, it's a sweet game imo.
#2 Not me
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As an afterthought, I guess I should add that
a. the built in mission builder is a great way to eat up otherwise idle hours.
b. Graphics are friggin' georgeous.
c. it's the one game that has me thinking of investing in track-ir.